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Sports Biz Mom: Corrie Schantz, UConn Athletics

November 26, 2018 by admin

This interview was a a fun one for me to do, not only because it was my first posting from a Mom in collegiate athletics; but, also because this Sports Biz Mom is also my former boss!  When I was a young, naive,  Marketing Intern with Nebraska Athletics (#MarketingWinsChampionships) Corrie Schantz was the Director of Athletic Marketing and we’ve fortunately kept in touch as she’s progessed in her career through some of the largest athletic departments in the country.  I was also excited because Corrie is expecting her first child (at least as I write this – the clock is ticking for this small human) and I thought it would be valuable to gain perspective from a soon-to-be Mom in the sports industry.  It’s no secret that college sports can be a grind and I hope Corrie’s experience can provide encouragement to women in similar positions.   Thank you, Corrie, for sharing your story during such a busy time in your life. I can’t wait to do a follow-up once the little one arrives!

Corrie Schantz is in her second year as the Associate Athletic Director for Strategic Marketing and Fan Engagement at the University of Connecticut.  She oversees both the marketing and video services areas of the Division of Athletics and is a member of the Senior Leadership Team.

Corrie joined UConn after serving as the Assistant Athletic Director-Marketing at the University of Texas. She also served as the Assistant Athletic Director-Marketing at the University of Minnesota from 2013-16 and had oversight of the marketing, new media, video board production and spirit squad units. Schantz was the department’s daily liaison with Gopher Sports Properties and developed a student ticket sales campaign that saw a 118% growth in three seasons.

From 2011-13, Corrie was the Assistant Athletic Director-Marketing at Virginia Commonwealth University and developed a brand marketing campaign for VCU to capitalize on its run to the 2011 NCAA Men’s Final Four.  Prior to joining VCU, Shantz spent four years as the Director of Athletic Marketing at Nebraska and from 2004-2007, she was the Director of Marketing for Nelligan Sports Marketing at Colorado State University.

Schantz was a member of the National Association of Collegiate Marketing Administrators Board of Directors from 2015-16. She took part in the NCAA/Women Leaders In College Sports Institute for Administrative Advancement in 2014.

She received her bachelor’s degree in sports administration and business administration from the University of Nebraska-Kearney in 2001 and her master’s in sports administration from the University of Northern Colorado in 2003.   She lives in Connecticut with her husband, Adam, and is expecting her first child this fall.

What are your day-to-day responsibilities with UConn Athletics? As an administrator, my primary responsibility is to provide leadership and management to the units and individuals for the various departments I oversee, including our marketing department, which includes marketing, social media and graphic design, our video services department, which includes live production and content creation, and our men’s and women’s tennis teams as their sport supervisor.

I serve on our leadership team, the senior administrators on our staff, our external team, and I serve as one of the primary liaisons to IMG, our sponsorship rights holder.  Strategically on a day to day basis, I am primarily responsible for revenue generation, ticket sales and attendance, fan experience, fan engagement and strategic partnerships.  All of those encompass a myriad of things including sales and branding campaigns, student engagement, gameday experience and presentation, etc.

To date, what project or career accomplishment are you most proud of? I think there are several moments I could reflect on and be incredibly proud – including a campaign at VCU that ultimately helped capitalize on a Final Four run the season prior that really helped leverage the VCU Basketball brand.  The end result was a very successful campaign that garnered some national media attention but what stands out the most from that particular experience is the relationship that was built with the coach and program from that effort.  I think the key factor for any level of success is the ability to build relationships, which I’ve found stem from a foundation of trust, accountability, communication and transparency.

I mention the above example, however, I think the accomplishment that stands out the most to me personally is the ability to be in a leadership position as a female in college athletics and be a resource and a mentor to encourage, motivate and inspire other females and young professionals pursuing careers in this field.  I truly feel it is a personal responsibility, and something that I’m obligated to give back simply from my own experience and journey.  If I had had a mentor earlier on in my career to help build confidence, perhaps help me find my voice and overall how to be better positioned and prepared to face some of the challenges that we do, such as being the lone female in a meeting, how to balance being direct but respected, etc., I don’t think I would have questioned myself as much as I did.  I’m fortunate now that I have several females that have helped me tremendously and that I look up to, but I think the early years are so critical in terms of your outlook, attitude, approach, etc., that having that network and support is key to long-term success for us as females.  I’m very intentional and passionate about how I can impact other females, whether they choose to stay in this field or not, but a couple of years ago the term “lift as we rise” became a working order for me personally.

The sports industry, and in particular collegiate athletics, is notorious for its demanding schedule and long hours.  As a leader in your organization, how would you suggest women and/or parents approach the subject of flexibility with their supervisors? With the advancement of more and more females in leadership roles, either as coaches, administrators, executives, etc., I do think there has been some progress in making better accommodations and willingness to be flexible to better position women with children to be successful long-term for higher retention of females in this industry.  However, ultimately, it is up to the leader of your organization and while we’ve made progress, not all are making such accommodations which to me inevitably means we’re going to unfortunately continue to lose some very talented and valuable women in this field.  There’s substantial room for more male leaders to be advocates, proponents of and supporters of advancing women and help position them for long-term success.

Let’s be honest.  I literally found out I was pregnant from an unexpected phone call from my doctor as I was standing outside in March putting our women’s basketball team on a bus to go to the airport for the Final Four in a send-off party on campus.  From that moment it became “real” that two worlds are inevitably colliding!  What I have been transparent about to my supervisor is as a first-time mom (and a tad bit older one at that!) is that I don’t know what or how this is going to look or work for me and my family, that I can’t sit here today and say yes, I’ll still be in the office from 8-5, I’ll still be at most of our events and accessible on my cell phone 24/7.  There’s inevitably going to be some change and we’re both going in anticipating and being prepared for change – even though right now we may not know exactly what that looks like or how it will work.  I’ve been very transparent in reassuring him that my goal by making small accommodations and flexibility is that I will continue to be accountable and reliable, and that I’m confident that not only can I continue being an administrator, but also continue to grow professionally and have a sustainable future in college athletics.

Sidebar:  I met my husband a little later in life, so up until meeting him I just kept forging forward with my career – moving wherever and whenever the next right opportunity came up.  However, when I did meet him my priorities, albeit surprisingly, naturally started to shift, then we got married, then we got a puppy and I saw them shift even more (never thought I’d be “that person” – a dog mom!).  Early on in my career, and this will totally sound cliché, but I had an epiphany.  Mentally and emotionally I was bringing work home with me every single day and I was questioning if I could see myself doing this longer-term.  At the time I thought that as a female if I didn’t show the same level of drive, passion, grit and work ethic day in and day out that I wouldn’t succeed or thrive in this field.  I decided literally in that moment that by choosing instead of letting this career define me, to simply be a part of me, that I could still be all those things but still be “me”.  I can’t even begin to express how such a simple decision changed my outlook on life and on my career.  Over time and particularly in most recent years I’ve been more okay and comfortable with not giving every project 110%, or accepting that anything less than 110% wasn’t deemed a “success”, or feeling obligated to say “yes” to every task, challenge, etc.

My husband and I had to have some serious, sometimes tough, and honest conversations before we dove into this process (not only planning for a family but commit to a process to get pregnant) and to be honest I had to have a lot of conversations with myself.  It was important for me to “bare all” if you will, so that along with all of the joy, happiness and excitement building a family would bring, that he also knew my fears, my anxieties and my concerns and just as important – that I processed them myself.

The emotional planner in me had to be prepared for some very real scenarios – am I ready to sunset my career if unexpectedly I’d rather stay at home?  If I continue working can I truly be the mom I want to be or envisioned to be?  On the flipside to working, can I continue to be the driven, committed and passionate professional that I’ve been?  Ultimately I think I felt I would be dis-servicing someone or something.  Additionally, we’re still relatively new to Connecticut so we don’t have a huge circle of friends or a “village” established, our closest family is 650 miles away, my husband travels fairly significantly for his job, etc. so there were a lot of other factors that were also leaving me a little nervous and anxious.  Ultimately, I needed to know that as partners, my husband heard me and understood me, but that I was prepared myself.

Did I overthink it a little too much?  Probably, but when you work in an external unit where most every decision you make plays out in some fashion on a public pedestal it’s just natural!

I think what’s been tough in having this conversation with other women and moms, and the response has repeatedly been “you’ll find a way to make it work”.  I think I’ve always known that, have always operated that way, and have embraced that approach.  But after what feels like the 50th time you’re like okay I get it, but I was hoping to find more women or perhaps hear more encouragement or words of advice – perhaps at the end of the day it truly is as simple as that.  But I am hopeful that if you ask me that question a year from now that I can say “lean in” to other women and colleagues, be realistic and prepared for your career to change in some fashion, recognize that it will be different and accept you may “mom fail” at some things, it will be normal to question if you’re a good mom or spending enough quality time with your kids.  So far I’ve gotten one response that makes me tear up now thinking about who it came from, I said “I’m going to need some tips from one of the best moms I know”, and her response was “You already know the answers.  Starts with L and ends with E.  It all starts and ends there.”

You’ve worked at Texas, Minnesota, VCU, Nebraska and now Connecticut.   Were there other Moms in those athletic departments? Can you recall how they integrated their families into their work life? Most definitely yes, there were other moms, but did I pay attention or learn from them as much as I should have?  Definitely not!  What I recall most is almost fascination – as in how are they doing this?  How is our director of ticket operations working every single Saturday from late August to January, travelling half of the season – leaving on Fridays for away football games and getting back in the wee hours of the morning on Sunday and then fully functioning on Monday all over again back in the office?  I think what I probably wasn’t in tune to was the support system behind them, at both work and home, and likely how they adjusted their work schedule to better accommodate their family but changes that were fairly invisible to colleagues.  Of course having families at athletic events or other events such as community outreach or fundraising efforts has almost always been the case – which is one of the things I love about college athletics.  I think I learned a long time ago that it was no longer about balance – it really doesn’t exist anymore – but integration as you mentioned.

You’re currently part of the senior leadership team at Connecticut.  Do you think your experience as a new Mom and the flexibility you may/may not be afforded would be different if you would have started a family at an earlier point in your career? That’s a tough one for me to answer as I honestly don’t know.  But again I do truly think it depends on your leadership.  There was a video that was viral of the Florida volleyball head coach, and how if it had not been for her athletic director to allow her to bring her kids with her on road trips and travel with her, as well as doing the same for other athletic support staff members such as athletic trainers, or make accommodations or help find resources on campus to help, is the key to retaining women in this profession.  My athletic director feels strongly about females in our industry and finding and creating opportunities to advance women is important to him, so I’m confident that he truly believes flexibility will be key for me to continue to be successful and continue to progress in this field.

I think if I were true to myself, I could probably say if I had had children early on in my career, I’m not so sure I would have kept pushing myself to progress in this industry, but that’s only something I can say in hindsight knowing what I know now.   Perhaps it is better not knowing!

Can you tell us about your conversation with your boss when you told he/she you were expecting? Is there anything you would have done differently? Like some other women whose stories I’ve read, I was absolutely petrified to tell both my boss and athletic director that I was expecting.  In full transparency I shared this with them after the fact, but I, like many others, had absolutely no reason to substantiate this fear from them personally.  I’ve known them both for quite some time and knew they would be nothing but supportive, excited and happy about our news.  My overall experience as a female in this industry is what I feel built that fear and not necessarily just for moms, but females in general.

Was I going to start being overlooked for opportunities or additional responsibilities? Or, are they going to pass on me now due to my “situation” so as not to put too much on my plate?  I’ve always felt I’ve had to work harder, smarter, take on more, etc., either from self-pressure or from true experiences.  I think the only thing I would have done differently is communicate my commitment more and desire to continue working. I think I was so focused on just getting the news out itself that I didn’t put much thought into my future plans.

What are you doing to prepare for maternity leave? I don’t know that I’m the best example – as I still feel totally unprepared and that’s not me at all.  I feel like I’m failing both at home and at work, the nursery still needs A LOT of TLC and work, I’m still wrapping up plans that probably should have been done weeks ago.  But, I have faith and confidence that everything will be fine.  My sister keeps telling me as long as I have the essentials to bring a baby home (car seat, diapers, etc.) to not worry and I’m confident that when I’m gone at work there will be a new norm for some but nothing that drastic.

Have you discussed your transition back to work with your boss? Definitely, because it’s my first and because I do have a great relationship with my boss I’ve been transparent in managing expectations – which I know can be difficult conversations.  I don’t know how things will change, what will be realistic, etc., so we’ve talked about a different work schedule in terms of hours, possibly working from home one day a week, etc.  I think the biggest takeaway is the ability for both of us to be flexible and expect the unexpected, that what we plan may change.  I intend to check in at some point when I have a better sense and realistic idea of what our new reality and day to day looks like so we can both be on the same page.  We have an understanding that while on maternity leave I may start to check in occasionally, but if I don’t that’s okay too.  My husband and I are very blessed and fortunate to be in this position at all (being pregnant), so the priority is definitely being focused and present at home and not have guilt or concerns while I’m away.

Have you and your husband determined what type of childcare you use when you return to work? We are going to be using a childcare facility located within the community of our campus.  Unfortunately we live about 45 minutes from campus, for anyone that’s ever been to UConn, Storrs is very unique in being fairly remote!  We wanted to live somewhere we felt we could build a community or “village” so sacrificed a little on having a commute.  For the first year I felt it was important to be close to the facility for the times my husband will be travelling, I definitely needed that peace of mind although I am struggling internally with having to force our baby join in on the commute with me.

SPORTS BIZ MOM KEYS TO THE GAME:

  1. You already know the answers.  Starts with L and ends with E.  It all starts and ends there.
  2. You don’t have to let your career define you, it can be a big, important part of your life; but, it’s not what makes you, you.
  3. Even if you don’t yet have or want children, pay attention to the Moms in your office now and how they manage their home and work responsibilities.  Their experience can speak volumes of your employer’s willingness to support your life outside of the office, while also helping you determine what you would like that experience to look like for yourself.

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Sports Biz Mom: Jamie Morningstar, Milwaukee Bucks

October 15, 2018 by admin

The NBA is back – and in a big way here in Milwaukee.   The Milwaukee Bucks move into the Fiserv Forum has been highly anticipated, and the team will officially hit the hardwoods in its new home this Friday, 10/19, when they take on the Indiana Pacers.  The city has been buzzing about its new arena and the development surrounding it, and the Bucks recently announced they sold a team-record 10,000 season tickets for the upcoming season.  This is a far cry from the league-low of 2,500 season-ticket holders in 2014, when the current ownership took the reigns of the team, and this week’s interviewee, Jamie Morningstar, started with the Bucks.  I spoke with Jamie back in August and always planned to save this conversation to kick-off the NBA season – and I’m so glad I did.  As you’ll read, during our interview, she mentioned her team’s goal of selling 10,000 season-tickets. So, I was excited to see all of the fun press around everything her team has accomplished earlier this month.  You can find her quoted in this article on ESPN.com.  Congratulations, Jamie! Best of Luck to you and the Bucks this season!

Jamie Morningstar has extensive experience in the NBA and is currently the Senior Vice President of Ticket Sales & Service for the Milwaukee Bucks, where she has worked since 2014.  Previously, she served as the Vice President of Season Ticket Service & Retention at Madison Square Garden, and also spent time with the Oklahoma City Thunder, Seattle Super Sonics and Palace Sports & Entertainment.  She holds a J.D. from Ave Maria School of Law and a Bachelors in Business and Sports Administration from the University of Kansas.   Jamie lives in Milwaukee with her husband and two children, ages two and a half and one.  Connect with her on LinkedIn.

What are your day-to-day responsibilities with the Milwaukee Bucks? I oversee ticket sales from a plan sales perspective and all of our premium sales and service at the new arena.   This includes season tickets, group sales, and premium seating for the basketball and non-basketball events in the arena.  Including interns, our team has about seventy employees.

The Bucks are moving in to the Fiserv Forum this fall.   What most excites you about this new era in Bucks basketball?  There are so many things to be excited about!  This isn’t just about Bucks – it’s more about revitalizing the downtown area.  There’s been so many people in the community that have helped us to this point and so many awesome contributors that have truly helped us make a difference. Our goal is to sell 10,000 season tickets, which would be a record for the team.  However, we’ve also created new jobs and new housing – the most meaningful part is that it’s more than just basketball.

Can you describe a typical day in the life for you and your family?  To walk you through a normal workday, I’d first have to start on the weekend.  On Friday night, after the kids go to bed, I get on Pinterest and decide what meals I want to make the following week.  Then, I order the groceries and have them delivered.   Grocery delivery is a lifesaver – it’s worth the 10% fee!  I make two meals on Saturday night, and another two on Sunday, and this is our food for the week.

During the week, our normal wake-up time is around 4:30 or 5:00 AM.  We get the kids up and my husband feeds them breakfast while I get ready.  We are out the door around 7:00/7:30 AM every day and I drop them off at daycare.

My husband is a teacher, so summer is different, but when he’s working, he’ll pick the kids up at the end of the day.  They will all get home around 5:30 PM and I am there around 6:15 PM.  My husband decides which of the meals we’re eating and I’m usually there about the time the food is ready.

Depending on how tired the kids are, they either play or go straight to bed.  We do baths in the morning because they can’t function at night.   After they eat and go to bed, we make their lunches and bottles using the meals we made over the weekend.  We also do a bunch of steaming of vegetables on the weekend to include in their lunches throughout the week.  On a game night I’ll come home for thirty minutes to say good night and help with the bedtime routine, and then I go back to the arena.

You have extensive experience in the NBA and ticket sales, which seems to be a sector of the industry that many women are either hesitant to start their careers in or simply view it as a necessary stop early in their careers.  Give me your best “sales pitch” as to why more women should pursue ticket sales as a career track.  Even as we go through the recruiting process for the entry level folks, there’s a very disproportionate number of males that apply versus females.  The women are just as capable, if not more so, if they take it on.  I just don’t think there is a lot of education about the available opportunities. Personally, I’ve never felt like I wouldn’t be able to excel as a female [in ticket sales].  Our role as we go through our recruiting process is to make sure we get in front of as many people as possible and find the most qualified applicants. I don’t know if it’s a stigma – there’s a negative connotation to being a salesperson – some people immediately think you’re trying to trick them into something.  However, we need to make sure everyone knows the growth that can happen from it.

I’m assuming your role requires you to be at the arena most game nights.  Are you able to integrate your family into your work? It’s a twelve minute drive for me to and from and work. On a random Friday in the summer, my husband will pick the kids up and bring them to the office.  If we have events on the weekend, I’ll bring them to those. They’re too young to come to games in the evening, but they come on the weekends.  We tell my 2-year old it’s a “basketball party”.

We’re very fortunate that our President loves kids, and respects what mothers go through.  He’ll tell us, “I don’t want to hear it if you need to leave for something.  Do what you need to do. As long as you’re getting your work done this organization supports you to do what you need to do to try to find as much balance as possible in an industry where it’s hard to find balance.”

The sports industry is notorious for its demanding schedule and long hours.  As a leader in your organization, how would you suggest women and/or parents approach the subject of flexibility with their supervisors? We need people to get their stuff done and their work is tied to our network so it’s hard to work from home; but, there are a lot of people on our staff that have kids.  One of our managers even had a baby eight weeks early.  They had to be in the hospital to be around her and we said, “Hey, do what you need to do.”  Another rep had a sick child and his wife didn’t have a flexible job.   There’s no policy about the number of days – if they need something outside a normal request is all they have to do is talk to a manager. You just need to make sure you stay on top of your work.

We’re trying to create a culture where people want to come to work every day.  If you’re not doing that, you’re going to be coutnterproductive and they [your employees] will hold it against you.  There is not a good chance someone will stick around or be engaged if life is miserable at home.  We buy into our people and our people buy into us as a result.

We buy into our people and our people buy into us as a result.

I believe that balance as Mom who works is a myth.  The pull of work versus home comes in waves, and the challenge is adjusting to the tides and re-prioritizing how you spend what limited free time you do have.  How do you maintain those boundaries and is there anything on your pre-child “to-do” list that now doesn’t make the cut? I have to be more efficient at work at the highest level possible. I used to be scoot out at 6:30 or 7:00 PM, eat dinner, and then get caught up on email – I can’t do that anymore.   I have to figure out a way to get ready for the next day during the day. I’m also exhausted beyond belief when the kids go to bed, so doing that is a vicious cycle.

I’ve had to learn to be okay with having more unread emails in my inbox than I used to.  I’ve been clear with my leaders and told them that if they need something immediately to pop in and talk to me – especially with what’s going on right now.  My inbox is just insane.

The one thing I’ve tried to continue to do is get at least twenty minutes in working out.  If I’m  dead tired I do choose which is more important – sleep or exercise – but I am more consistent with that [working out] than I was before.

How has being a Mom positively impacted your career or made your better at your job?  It put things in perspective.  I’m a super emotional person,  and while I think the people that report to me might not say this, I’ve been a lot more calm on some stuff because it’s all in perspective now.  If I’m freaking out about having all those unread emails, I think,  “Would I rather do that or read books to my child?”  That’s a no brainer every time.

Do you have any book/blog/podcast recommendations for the Sports Biz Mom? I would recommend The Purple Cow by Seth Godin, as well as his daily blog.  I read things all the time in his blog that I apply to my work.

Are they are other questions you would like me to ask another Mom that I speak with or any other thoughts to share? What has been most helpful for me is to work for people who are understanding and who support working Moms. It’s not necessarily a question you can ask when someone’s interviewing for a job.  For example, it’s not, “How supportive are you to working Moms?” It’s “Have you had a working Mom as part of your staff before and how does it impact performance?”

If you have kids you have to show up on time and it doesn’t matter.  Everyone should be treated fairly across the board; but, working for good people has been the best part about feeling good about having kids and not feeling like I have a guilt trip.  I don’t feel like I have to miss something on the work side or vice versa.  IT IS achievable, you just have to have a good partner, a supportive organization, and others to lean on to help get the job done.

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Sports Biz Mom: Amy Weinstein Flynn, CertifiKID

October 8, 2018 by admin

I was (and am) excited to share my latest interview with Amy Weinstein Flynn.   She contacted me right after Sports Biz Mom launched in June, and while I recognized her name from my graduate program’s alumni directory, we had never previously spoken.  Amy has an extensive background in sponsorship sales, and she’s also incredibly funny and creative.  In fact, I now have some great ideas for future crowd sourced blog posts (Funny pumping story? Please, hit me up!).  I appreciated her openness about her experience as one of the only Moms within her company when she had her first child, and it really drove home how important it is for all managers – no matter their gender or family status – to be educated and comfortable talking about family life with their employees.

After 15+ years in the traditional sports business world, Amy Weinstein Flynn joined CertifiKID in October 2017 as a National Account Executive, helping the team bring on new major partnerships and offers.  CertifiKID is a trusted resource for over 1 million moms, bringing them exclusive local and national offers on family entertainment, attractions, products, services, and experiences.  She came to CertifiKID after nearly 5 years as the Director of Sales for Inside Lacrosse, managing all advertising and event sponsorship sales for the largest media outlet in the sport.  

Prior to that, she held senior sales positions with IMG College/ISP Sports as General Manager at George Washington University and Assistant General Manager at Villanova.  She got her start in the sports industry on the agency side, with both Octagon and Velocity Sports & Entertainment (now part of MKTG), on accounts such as AT&T, FedEx, P&G, The Home Depot, and AutoTrader.com.   

Amy is a 2005 graduate of Ohio University’s Sports Administration program, with a dual Masters in Business Administration and Sports Administration.  She received her undergraduate degree from the University of Pennsylvania in 2001, where she also served as a captain and 4-year starter for the Women’s Lacrosse team.  She resides in Columbia, Maryland, with her husband Dan, daughter Hannah (4.5 years), and son Bennett (2.5 years). Connect with her on LinkedIn.

Can you describe a typical day in the life for you and your family?  For the first time ever in my career, for almost a year now, I’ve been working from home – which is fantastic.  I’ve had some miserable commutes in past jobs. Traffic in the Washington/Baltimore area is horrendous, no matter where you need to go, so that has opened up so much time for me personally and professionally.

We have an au pair living in our home, which seems so extravagant, but it’s actually extremely affordable.  She’s been with us since shortly before our second child was born and it’s about half the cost of having two non-school aged kids in full-time daycare.

Our au pair gets the kids up in the morning, gets them dressed and gives them breakfast.  It’s amazing to just enjoy some time together in the morning, and I’m grateful we don’t have the stress and rush to get out the door.

Once my husband leaves for work, I go upstairs to my office.  The kids will go out on play dates or to school. Sometimes they’re around the house and doing things and its awesome to be able to join them for lunch when they’re home.

My office in the home is pretty secluded from their play/napping areas and they know when Mom’s working that she’s working.  We try to have family dinner every night and spend some time doing something fun together before everyone goes to bed.

You have 15+ years’ experience in the industry and in the past year decided to move to a role outside of traditional sports business world.  Can you tell us your thought process behind that decision? I had no intention of ever leaving the sports industry.  I always thought there was nothing I could be more passionate about in a career than sports and in particular, lacrosse. That’s why I thought I’d be in my spot at Inside Lacrosse for a very long time.

What I came to realize after having kids, was that I had changed a lot more professionally than I expected to.  Although I still loved my job (and couldn’t imagine doing anything else), I found myself starting to be less relevant, and less connected with the industry trends than I had been before.

Ever since my daughter was young, I’ve been a CertifiKID subscriber – most of the moms in our neighborhood are.  I’m very particular about spam in my Inbox, and delete and unsubscribe from just about everything, but I would always open my CertifiKID e-mails daily to see what that day’s deal was.  One night last year, I opened my daily CertifiKID e-mail, and instead of a local offer, it was an announcement that they were hiring full-time sales staff.  I remember reading that e-mail and thinking that the opportunity to work from home AND seek out local family deals sounded amazing – I mean, I was already spending much of my free time trying to find great deals on things to do with my own kids, so what could be better than doing that full-time?  It was the first time I’ve ever just blindly sent in a job application without having some kind of foot already in the door.  I didn’t even know where to find my résumé in my files, and I think it was in a version of Word that was so old I couldn’t even open it on my computer!  I honestly didn’t think it would lead to anything, and I didn’t know much about them as a company, other than being a customer myself.  After I received a response from my application and started to learn more, I knew I had to go all-out and give it a chance.  It was a leap of faith on many levels, but I’m so glad I made it.

What I’m really loving is that there is a ton of crossover into the sports and entertainment world.  I was just back and forth with some old friends at Octagon and the NFL this week because I’m trying to pitch a partnership with Home Depot for their kids’ workshops, and the NFL for their  Women’s Marketing Initiatives. I’ve also worked with a bunch of the local college and professional teams – some of our best-selling offers are for family ticket packages, sports camps, and other family events run in the sports facilities.  I probably have a more relevant and valuable partnership opportunity within the sports and entertainment industry now than I did at Inside Lacrosse. It’s the women and moms that make all the purchasing decisions for their families, so they’re a desirable target, and we have a super unique platform to reach them.

Do you or did you have other “Mom Mentors” or Moms working in sports to help guide  you through parenthood and professional life? I really didn’t, and I think that’s such a shame.  I’d be curious to hear what kind of answers you’re getting from other women you’re talking to.  I was with IMG when my daughter was born and it was kind of an office of one. I was running the property for George Washington. I was surrounded by co-workers in GW’s Athletic Department and none of them were Moms. Nor were there any in my immediate IMG division.  In fact, I remember when I first called to tell my boss I was pregnant, he was ecstatic and thrilled for me…but then told me that he had absolutely no clue what to tell me in terms of maternity leave policies, next steps, logistics, etc. He was an SVP and had been there since before ISP became IMG (probably 15 years), and this was the first time any of his employees had needed to take maternity leave.  At the time, with the seventy or so properties that IMG managed, I think there were maybe three female General Managers.

How has being a Mom positively impacted your career? Two things: I didn’t realize how capable I was of multitasking and being able to get a lot of shit done when I needed to until I became a Mom.  Over the course of the baby taking a short 20-minute nap, I could manage to feed myself, shower, put the laundry away, and unload the dishwasher.  When I returned to work after maternity leave, I think I was able to get through the daily, mundane tasks in about half the time it took me before.

Before having kids, we all work such long hours, have great coworkers and a fun energetic work environment, and aren’t in a rush to leave at the end of the day.  Now, I’m also more motivated to end work on time.  I was able to really compartmentalize work and focus more on my work-life balance.  Those of us that have chosen a career in sports, we’re so passionate about what we do, that we never stop working.  We get into bed and respond to emails, are constantly working on our phones and laptops, and find little time to focus on much else.  However, I realized in my first few months back from maternity leave, that once you get home and see that little smile on your baby’s face, all the stress from the day goes away and you realize what’s really important.  I’m now able to manage any stress from work much better, and be more present when I’m at home.

The sports industry is always going to have irregular hours that are difficult to manage with a family.  If you want to work in the industry, that’s just a fact.  What can we in the industry do to make it a more family-friendly place to work?  Education and support.  Before I was a mother, I had absolutely no clue what the early stages of motherhood entailed. When someone in the office came back from maternity leave, I just treated them like I did before they left, thinking they has been out for some glamourous, blissful extended vacation.  Now I know how far from the truth that is, and it infuriates me anytime maternity leave is compared to “vacation”.

I think we need to educate younger coworkers (or co-workers without children) about what new mothers returning to the workplace have been through and will continue to go through both physically and emotionally.  I also think breastfeeding education for managers is key.  We need to make it a welcoming environment for mothers to come back.

What advice do you have for women coming up in the industry, particularly in sponsorship sales, who also know they want to someday have a family? It can be done. It can be a harder transition coming back to work in sports as compared to other industries, but I feel that being a mom provides a unique and valuable perspective to your work once you do come back.

Because there are so few Moms in sponsorships sales, it almost gives you a professional edge in speaking to clients.   There are many female decision makers out there who are Moms, and it’s refreshing for them to speak with or work with someone who gets it.  Even men – whether they’re coworkers or clients – if they are dads themselves, they’re going to understand and appreciate what you’ve been through.  You’ll probably see a side of clients and coworkers that you didn’t before, which can definitely help strengthen your relationships with them both professionally and personally.

Do you have a funny or embarrassing Mom moment you’d be willing to share? While I was gone on maternity leave from IMG, the Athletic Department at GW got a new copier/printer – a huge monster of a machine – and they put it right smack in the middle of my (private/single) office. It was the hub for three different departments for printing, scanning, copying, faxing, etc.

My boss texted me a picture the week before maternity leave ended, saying “This is where Marketing put their new printer.  Welcome Back, Mom!”

So, every time I had to pump, I had to announce it to the entire office, to make sure no one had any immediate printing needs or needed to pick up anything from the printer  – it definitely was not a welcoming environment.  When I voiced concerns about the privacy/conflict, I was told that I should be using one of the GW lactation rooms that were spread across the campus.  The closest one to my office was at least 4 large city blocks away, and I was returning in the bitter cold of January, so that just wasn’t going to happen.

 

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Sports Biz Mom: Shelly Wilkes, Lakeland Magic

September 11, 2018 by admin

One of my favorite things about this blog thus far is the opportunities it has provided me to connect with other women that I would have otherwise never met.   Two months ago, Shelly Wilkes and I were complete strangers, save a few mutual connections.  Shelly’s husband, Dallas, stumbled upon one of my previous posts, and sent me a LinkedIn message bragging about how proud he was of his wife and telling me that she’d be the perfect candidate for an interview.  Not only was I thrilled to see a partner so excited by their loved one’s success, but she also lived up to all of the awesome things he told me about her in that first message.  I learned so much during our conversation (i.e. Twitch being like HGTV – it will make sense, I promise!) and I’m pumped to follow Shelly and the G League this basketball season.

Shelly Wilkes is the team president of the Lakeland Magic, NBA G League affiliate of the Orlando Magic, in Lakeland, Florida. She is responsible for launching and overseeing the day-to-day business operations of the team.

Wilkes spent 13 seasons with the Orlando Magic and started as a game-night staff member in the marketing department during the 2003-04 season and was hired full-time in August 2004 as group sales coordinator.  She was promoted to group sales account executive in July 2005, then named game presentation manager in July 2006.  Wilkes was then promoted to assistant director of event presentation in July 2007, later promoted to the director of event presentation in July 2010 and named the senior director of live entertainment and production services in July 2015.

Wilkes received her bachelor’s degree in general business from the University of Central Florida in 2002.  She later graduated from the DeVos Sport Business Management Program at UCF in 2004 and earned master’s degrees in both business administration and sport business management.

Shelly lives in Orlando, Florida. with her husband, Dallas, and their almost two-year old daughter, Quinn. Connect with her on LinkedIn.

Can you describe a typical day in the life for you and your family?  During the week, when we don’t have games, the typical day starts at 4:30 or 5:00 AM when I go to the gym. I am back at 6:15 AM and then my husband goes to the gym.  If she’s participating with our schedule, Quinn, will sleep until 7:00 AM and I can be mostly ready for work at that point.  My husband comes home and we both work to get her fed breakfast and ready for daycare.

I try to leave the house no later than 7:30 AM. I take her to daycare every morning so I can have time with her in the car.  I actually commute about an hour to Lakeland from downtown Orlando.  If it’s a not a game-night, I leave Lakeland by 5:30 PM at the latest, so I can get home and spend a little more time with her.  My husband picks her up from daycare every day and I’m home by 6:30 PM. We’re done eating by 7:30 PM, and then we do baths and bedtime around 8:00 PM.  After Quinn’s in bed, we clean up and get lunches ready for the next day.  By 9:30 PM I’m either going to bed or finishing up work.  I try to go to sleep by 10:30 PM at the latest.

Weeknight game days are similar, except I’m not at home in the evening, but for weekend games my husband will bring her for the first half of the game and I typically get home around 11:00PM.

You’re the first female NBA G League President and were approached about launching the team when you were pregnant.  How did that factor into your decision making process? What advice would you give to women in a similar position? The first thing that popped into my mind was shock, I was like, “You guys know I’m pregnant, right? You know I’m going to be gone for three months.”

It wasn’t like I was newly pregnant – I was eight months along!  However, I now have an even greater appreciation for where I work. In most cases this opportunity would not be provided to a woman who was pregnant.   They valued and trusted me enough to offer me the job knowing that I would be out during the first three months.

Secondly, there was a lot of fear and self-doubt. That’s a lot of change.  I was asking myself, “Am I capable of doing this? I am comfortable in my job now and I know what I’m doing every day and I love what I’m a part of.”  My original thought was I could come back from maternity leave and know what was going on in my current role versus this – I’d come back and I’m launching a franchise.

My advice is, if other people have that much trust in you, you should trust yourself.  Have the confidence to know that you’re capable of doing this.  My partner is also super supportive.  We had to think through the potential of a move and how that was going to work – it’s 50 miles away.  Having a partner that is supportive is a blessing and what I hope everyone would try to find.  It was tough few days of weighing the options.  I knew I was going to have a lot of stress with having a new baby – there’s so much unknown – and now knowing that there’s going to be a huge job when I come back.  However, I knew it was a great opportunity for growth in my career and I wanted to be an example for my daughter and show her you can do what you want to do and make it all work.

The NBA G-League is known to be a testing ground of sorts for the NBA and began streaming games on Twitch last season.  How has this been received by your fans? Does it impact your sponsorships or in-game entertainment? Most of our games are streamed on Facebook Live and Twitch.  There were about 53 games last year [broadcasted] on NBA TV and ESPN as well, and we’re continuing to figure out more distribution channels for the G League.

Twitch came on last year after the season started and it’s an opportunity is to reach a new audience.  Most people know Twitch because they are gamers, but outside of gaming, many don’t understand the platform. I’ve compared it to watching Food Network or HGTV – instead of watching someone else cook or do home renovations, you watch people play video games. Twitch has recently gotten into distribution of sports and also broadcasts a lot of soccer games.  The G League partnership was a way to test the relationship and they ended up being the broadcast partner for the NBA 2K League.

For us, it was another opportunity to reach a new audience.  I like Twitch because it’s not gated at all. You don’t have to have an account to watch a game, which is different from Facebook Live.  Twitch is truly just going to their site and watching the game.  You can get a view from the local arena or watch the gaming personalities commentate on the broadcast.  We were able to partner with users that have millions of followers in the gaming world. They would actually commentate over our games.  This well-known personality on Twitch would talk about the G League, and it bridged the gap between gamers and sports.

The Lakeland Magic recently hosted a Women’s Leadership Breakfast.  What was the goal of this event? Were there any key takeaways from the panel that really resonated with the attendees? I’m in a unique role as a female team president, and I felt like I needed to expand upon that platform and provide an opportunity for women to have this conversation within our community.  I’ve never thought about being the only woman or relied upon it. I don’t think I have ever experienced discrimination.  I don’t think it’s [being a woman] hindered me.  I may have been naïve to what was/is happening me, but I’ve either never paid attention or its truly never happened to me.  However, I obviously want to be a role model and utilize the platform I have to lift others up, but I have not felt the discrimination others had.

I did know that within our community, this conversation needed to happen, and we needed a platform for people to get together.  I wanted a panel from different industries – corporate, education, entrepreneurs – and Kristen Ledlow hosted for us from the sports industry.  It was a very diverse panel with diverse backgrounds, which helped the conversation.  The different experiences can spark something within another person.  That’s what I think was most valuable.  I knew it was going to be a great event and people would have good experience.  I wasn’t prepared for how much people appreciated the openness of that dialogue that was in the room that day.

The most impactful thing most of our panelists talked about was that the only way we can make change and an impact is if we are lifting up those coming behind us.  If we’re not doing that than what are we doing?

Kristen Ledlow also shared a great point one of her mentors had told her on the sports broadcasting side – “No is a full sentence.”

We high achieving women, especially those in leadership roles, feel like we should and need to do everything to prove ourselves.   It’s even less feasible when you have a family. You cannot do it all and you can say “no” to things and feel confident in that answer.

Outside of this event, this season we’re partnering with a small business organization for a women’s leadership event around opening night.   We’ll also do a few different events throughout the season. This includes a basketball hoops and heels happy hour networking event with basketball on the court and a women only basketball clinic with our coaching staff.  We want to plan things to get women more engaged with each other and this conversation, but in a more relaxed atmosphere.

What professional accomplishment are you most proud of? Two things that come to mind were the opportunity to produce NBA All-Star Game in Toronto in 2016 and having the opportunity to launch the Lakeland Magic.  A lot of my pride in launching the team has to do with building an awesome team.  A team that has passion for what we’re building and wants to provide a great community platform and entertainment option for people in Polk County.  I also love watching people growing in their roles. We’re fairly young and getting to watch our staff really flourish and find their own way has been extremely rewarding for me.

Do you have other “Mom Mentors” or Moms working in sports to help guide you through parenthood and professional life? We’ve had a baby boom over the past few years at the Orlando Magic.  It was really nice to experience that together.  They’ve [the Orlando Magic] always been very family friendly, but we did not have the best maternity and paternity leave policy. We had a policy and it was good – but not from the standpoint of what we really should be doing for our staff.  With this boom and all the families having kids, it made the organization really take a look at our leave policy; how we were welcoming mothers back and how we were allowing fathers to take time with their new families.  As a result, the leave policy has changed and now it is awesome for all levels of the organization.  Those types of policies really do lead to loyalty, productivity and helping people appreciate where they work.

I also appreciate that there are a lot of young families I can go to, to with questions.  There are other women and working moms that have so much knowledge about how and what to do.  It’s a great group of people I’m able to lean on and call on.

It’s also been great to see some of our leaders that have families.  If their child has a game or activity at school, they make it a priority and go.  It’s important that leadership is showing that as an example.

How has being a Mom positively impacted your career? Your empathy grows.  One, a huge part of my job is maintaining a culture, building a staff, and keeping people motivated.  People bring their whole selves to work every day. It might not be visible, but it’s part of who they are.  I think becoming a Mom and knowing what my whole self looks like now has made me more empathetic and understanding of others life circumstances.

It’s not only made me a better leader, but I feel like I’m way more efficient. Efficiency is my love language!  I know I have an hour with my daughter in the morning and maybe two more at night.  What do I need to accomplish now?  I’m wearing my work hat now, I need to get this done because I need to put my Mom hat on and spend positive, focused time with Quinn.

Quinn showing off her athletic skills early, cruising past the competition to win the 2017 baby race.

The sports industry is always going to have irregular hours that can make managing family life difficult.  If you want to work in the sports, that’s just a fact.  What can we in the industry do to make it a more family-friendly place to work?  What I think organizations can be doing across the board is improving flexibility.  Having a flexible mindset when it comes to staff and what they individually need to make work, work for their family. We are very much a 9:00 – 6:00 office, but I think the days of that being the only option are no longer and should be no longer.  If somebody needs to come in at 8:00 and leave at 5:00 or they have a doctor’s appointment – they should be able to do it.  I know leaders that are not flexible and it doesn’t make you feel like you can do anything or that you’re valued or trusted to get your job done.  Flexibility is key as a leader in any organization.

I think family leave policies are also extremely important.  You should be showing that you’re truly valuing what that looks like, and that includes both maternity and paternity leave.  We all look at Sweden as an example.  There, the Mom AND the Dad have a year off – how amazing would that be?  Realistically, I don’t ever see America going that route, but you should have a leave policy that truly supports mothers and fathers taking the time and your leadership should support them in doing so.

Women are often stunted in their growth and career because their organization thinks they’re no longer capable of growing and that’s just not true. You become more efficient and much more focused on the job.  At the end of the day, there are definitely times when I think, “What would it be like if I did take a step back so I could spend more time with Quinn?”

But, the question is, does the father ever think that? At what point, do we as a culture, have a father that says, “I should take a step a back in my career so I can stay home and raise the kids.”  It’s an interesting dynamic, and whether it’s in our DNA as women or our culture to have that thought, we should have an environment that welcomes family into the workplace. Families should be celebrated.

Lastly, the unrealistic, but amazing option, would be to have on-site daycare.  I don’t need them to pay for it. I’ll pay for it.  A third party or organization on-site for daycare would make all the difference in people’s lives.

Do you have any book/blog/podcast recommendations for the Sports Biz Mom?  I listen to a lot of podcasts because I drive a lot. I really do think The Daily from the New York Times is a great thirty-minute news show.  I would also encourage people to sign up for theSkimm, which is an email newsletter that has quick snippets of the news presented in a very digestible way.  I think it’s very important to be up on current events and be informed, particularly in our political environment.

A work-related podcast is How to Be Awesome at Your Job. They interview leaders in different fields and it’s all focused on learning and growth.

For parenting, I love Unruffled by Janet Lansbury. She has a very unique parenting style and is super interesting.  She’s all about respectful parenting – speaking to your kids like real humans and explaining to them what’s happening.  When kids are frustrated, they don’t have the emotional capacity or language to deal with things, so we have to think of things from the child’s perspective and explain it to them.

I also love Simon Sinek and would encourage everyone to read Start With Why, Leaders Eat Last, and also listen to his Ted Talks.

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Five Podcasts for the Sports Biz Mom

August 24, 2018 by admin

Remember me? Thought I already gave up on this didn’t you?  Between work and some planned personal travel, August has been a whirlwind. After much internal chiding, I decided to give myself a break in producing content for a few weeks.  I wouldn’t be following my own advice if I didn’t take a step back to reset and I really didn’t want to force it and send myself down the anxiety spiral.  Instead, today, I am going to share someone else’s content.  I’ve been listening to a lot of Podcasts over the past year and I wanted to share some of my favorite shows related to professional development. So, here are Five Podcasts for the Sports Biz Mom (or really anyone…)

1. Akimbo

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One of my co-workers recommended Seth Godin’s Daily Blog nearly two years ago and I’ve been hooked ever since.  When I heard he was launching podcast, I knew this was going to be a good one – and it has lived up to all of my expectations.  To quote his website, “Akimbo’s a podcast about our culture and how we can change it.  About seeing what’s happening and choosing to do something.”

Seth is one of my favorite people to read/listen to when I need to reset and boost my motivation.  In fact, one of my all-time favorite quotes comes from Seth’s October 2016 blog post “On being irriated”.  I set a reminder in my email once a month to re-read this post (seriously, I’ve been doing this for two years) and that day it pops up is usually one when I’ve been feeling especially slighted or entitled.  As soon as I read, “Irritation is a privilege.”, I’m immediately knocked back into reality and given a much needed dose of perspective.  I’ve also said “Irritation is a privilege.” to my husband multiple times and received my fair share of eye rolls…

2. She Innovates with Michelle King

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She Innovates shares the stories, challenges, and triumphs of women across innovation, technology, and entrepreneurship.  Its creator, Michelle King, currently leads the UN Women’s Global Innovation Coalition for Change and is an Advisory Board member for Girl Up, the United Nations Foundation’s adolescent girl campaign. I just found this podcast a few weeks ago, and I have being listening non-stop ever since.  She has incredibly accomplished guests and their insights are valuable not only to Sports Biz Moms, but to anyone in business.   These are my two favorite episodes thus far:

  • 7/9: Georgene Huang: Should I stay or Should I Go?
  • 7/23 Episode: Maribeth Bearfield: Is Your Mental Load Holding You Back?

3. SBJ/SBD Morning Buzzcast

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Brought to you by the team at the Sports Business Journal, the SBJ/SBD Morning Buzzcast is a nice, quick, daily update on the latest happenings in sports business.  The episodes are only five minutes, so it’s a great thing to listen to in the car or as you get ready in the morning.   I love that it keeps me up to date on industry trends and sparks ideas for topics to learn more about or write about here!

4. WorkLife with Adam Grant

WorkLife is a TED original pod

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cast led by the aforementioned Adam Grant, who is an organizational psychologist and the top-rated professor at the Wharton School of Business, as well as a member of Fortune’s 40 Under 40.  Each episode of WorkLife takes you inside a different, and unusual, workplace to help us discover better ways to work. One of his most memorable episodes for me was his first, How to Love Criticism.  This one will change how you think about giving and receiving negative feedback – which is such a crucial factor for professional success.   The episode focuses on the idea of “radical transparency”, and while frightening, it made me think about what would change in my own workplace if we operated in the same fashion.

5. How I Built This

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How I Built This with Guy Raz highlights the origin stories of some of the world’s best known companies.  I find it fascinating to hear how the founders of companies like Lululemon, Rent the Runway, Chipotle, LinkedIn, etc. got their businesses off the ground and it’s such a great reminder that all great things start small.  Even if you have no plans of ever becoming an entrepreneur, there’s a lot to learn from the stories of his guests and I’ve found it gives me a newfound appreciation for some of my favorite brands.

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Do you have a favorite podcast that’s not on this list? I’d love to hear your recommendations in the comments.  I’m always looking for a new voice to add to the rotation.

On a final note, I have spent the last few weeks putting the final touches on some awesome new interviews and lining up future conversations.  The next two months will feature some inspiring Sports Biz Moms and I can’t wait to share them with you.

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Sports Biz Mom: Maria Holmes, Fifth Third Bank

July 30, 2018 by admin

I first met Maria Holmes in 2013 when I was a student at Ohio University.   She came back to Athens as part of our graduate program’s Executive Mentor weekend.  I remember admiring her confidence and presence and thought then and now that everyone in the room was smarter for having heard her speak.  When I started this blog, she was one of the first people I thought of for an interview and our conversation did not disappoint.   As a leader, Maria brings such a great perspective and her experience building in flexibility after maternity leave shows how a respected personal brand and solid work ethic can go along way in making work work for you and your family.

Maria Holmes is the VP, Senior Sponsorship Marketing Manager for Fifth Third Bank, where she has worked since 2011. As the Senior Sponsorship Marketing Manager she is responsible for the development and implementation of the bank’s corporate sponsorship strategy and oversees the evaluation, negotiation, creative development and activation of all sponsorships across the Fifth Third Bank footprint.  Prior to Fifth Third, she was an Account Executive on the Consulting team at Octagon.  Maria graduated from Ohio University with a Master of Sports Administration and Master of Business Administration and earned her Bachelor’s degree at Mercyhurst University, where she was also a member of the women’s soccer team.   Maria lives in the Cincinnati area with her husband Ryan, who works for the Cincinnati Bengals, and their three year old son Frankie.  Connect with her on LinkedIn.

“I am a Mom first and I work.  That is my priority.  I never call myself a working Mom, I call myself a Mom who works.”

What are your day-to-day responsibilities at Fifth Third Bank? Myself and my team of four manage Fifth Third’s core sponsorship portfolio.  We lead our partnerships with all the properties that have the opportunity to be activated on a more national level, and often consult with our regional marketing teams and their respective Regional Presidents on their local sponsorships.  Some of our major partners include the Cincinnati Bengals, Cleveland Browns, Nashville Predators, Daytona International Speedway, University of Cincinnati Basketball and Ricky Stenhouse Jr’s No. 17 Fifth Third Ford. I am also involved in the overall strategic vision of the marketing team, which is focused on building awareness and consideration for our brand.

Can you describe a “typical” day in the life for you and your family? I prefer to do drop-off and pick-up of our son, so I do most of the heavy lifting in terms of the daily daycare routine.  It’s some extra one-on-one time for Frankie and I to sing songs and chat. [My husband] Ryan makes my Spark in the morning, sets out my vitamins, makes Frankie’s snacks and packs everything up for the day.  Most of the morning at home is spent trying to convince Frankie to get up and moving, and then we get dressed and out the door for drop-off.  We chose a daycare that was as close to downtown as possible so we’re able to get to him as fast as we need to.

I have the liberty leave sometime between 4:30 and 5:00 PM, so I can get out and get to Frankie and not make an extended commute home.  We always try to do dinners together as a family and after we say our prayers at dinner, we go around the table and say what we’re thankful for that day.  After dinner we play every sport imaginable until 8:30 PM, and that’s when we start our bedtime routine. Frankie is usually down by 9:00 PM and if I haven’t fallen asleep in the recliner, I shower and sign back on to work or get things ready for the next day with Ryan.

I am able to work remote on Fridays, which was part of my agreement with my boss after maternity leave. I also teach class at The Barre Code at 7:00 AM and 12:00 PM on Fridays, and try to use that day to minimize all meetings and take the time to get work done.  On the other days of the week I schedule lunch on my calendar to work out at the studio near my office. This is how I spend my lunch hour. Take back your lunch hour!

As a sports industry couple, what are some unique ways you fit in the family time around your crazy work schedules? I don’t have to work the events so much anymore, but I usually am present to be supportive for my team that is there.  In that case, I take Frankie everywhere and will have him on my back in an Ergo baby carrier.  At first, [my husband] Ryan was hesitant and was concerned about me setting a precedent for my team. However, we decided that if it doesn’t impact my work then it’s not an issue.  I’m there to be a resource for my team and Frankie can easily do that with me.

[When Ryan has to work] I take him with me most places that he has to be. For Monday or Thursday night games, I pick Frankie up early form school and we’ll swing by and see Ryan so he can get some time with him before things get started. On Sunday mornings when we go down to the stadium, he comes with me.  We’re very fortunate that he’s willing to sit and listen. I don’t know if that will always be the case. It’s been a blessing to be able to take him with us wherever we are.

How has being a Mom positively impacted your career?  It’s made me more appreciative of my co-workers and better at focusing on the big things. Before Frankie, I had a hard time delegating, but now I’m able to put my effort behind the things that really matter for my team and the organization as a whole.  Around the same time he was born, I was asked to not be a “doer” anymore, and this forced me into letting go of control of what I thought I had to do.

It also gave me the opportunity to grow my team after a proven record of success.  I wasn’t able to put in the hours at the office until 8:00 PM, and what I was doing by myself previously required us to make moves and take initiative that may not have happened had I not been in that situation.

Was there any advice you received before Frankie was born that has helped you navigate the world of the “Working Mom”? Before I had Frankie, I had a lot of conversations with people who were successful Mom’s in the business world, I talked to a lot of women within the organizations headquartered in Cincinnati.  One of the things that really resonated with me was related to priorities.  Someone told me that for 20 years she hated the term “Working Mom” – and I had never thought of any other way to say it.  However, after speaking with her, I decided I am a Mom who works.  I am a Mom first and I work.  That is my priority.  I never call myself a working Mom, I call myself a Mom who works. Women in leadership positions can help change the nomenclature. You’re a Mom who works at the office or you’re a Mom who works at the home.

One of my goals for the blog is to be a resource for Moms but also for sports industry leaders who work with or manage Sports Biz Moms.  What advice would you give to someone managing (or who works closely with) a Sports Biz Mom or soon-to-be Mom – particularly one who is not a parent themselves? The best thing that you can do is check-in with them more often. I have an added challenge in that the only one on my team who is a Mom or Dad is a remote employee.  She’s in Atlanta while the rest of my team is in Cincinnati.

I can see the workload of my team in Cincinnati and manage it. I can see when they’re in and when they’re gone.  Whereas for my employee in Atlanta, I can’t get the same sense for her by looking at her facial expression. When I ask the team who has the capacity to take on a new project, it’s hard to tell if she’s reluctant or eager.  There’s a tendency as a Mom or someone who wants to continue in their career, that when we’ve been given some more flexibility, we also feel like we need to be on at 10:00 PM because we left at 4:30 PM.  “I need to take on that project because they gave me that flexibility.”

I would recommend having a real candid conversation of your expectations and how a Mom is no different than anyone else. I am SO anti-perception.  I do not care what time you get in or leave.  I don’t care what you have up on your computer screen.  I don’t care what time you sent an email.  Don’t do anything for perception.  Just get the job done.  As parents who work, we’re supposed to put on the perception that nothing has changed, when in reality your whole life and priorities have changed.  I think it’s unrealistic to think there’s not the need for flexibility or a change in work hours.  The expectation of flexibility should be given, and not have to be pried out of a manager. You just make them feel guilty and in turn at risk of disengagement…or worse, resignation!

How did you approach your boss about the flexibility in your schedule after returning from maternity leave? You want to be in a good place when you ask for it.  You don’t want to get to the point where you’re about to break. I scheduled time with my boss at around ten weeks in my leave.  I asked if we could grab lunch and if he’d like to meet my son, and then talk through where I am personally and how we move forward professionally.  It was during this time that I shared with him that I wanted some flexibility in coming back.  I proposed a plan to him for coming back slowly.  The first Monday I would sign-in from home, clean-up my emails, and take care of the HR processes.  On Tuesday, I would be in the office, Wednesday remote, Thursday office and then Friday remote.  The next week I came into the office on Monday, Wednesday, Friday and worked remote on Tuesday/Thursday.  Then, the following week was when I proposed a full remote Friday.  I suggested we try the set-up for six months, and that if he felt my performance started to drop and/or that I’m not available, we’ll take it back.  Three years later, we’re still at it!

What sort of family leave benefits did you receive when Frankie was born? I took short-term disability and had eight weeks paid through that policy, and then because of my tenure at work, I also had the additional four weeks paid in full.  If I would have had a child sooner than that I wouldn’t have had the same luxury, but I was paid full for the twelve weeks.  Fifth Third has since made a lot of progress in what they offer for maternity and paternity leave.  There’s a maternity concierge that has two dedicated staff members to help Moms with children under the age of one.

What’s something you wish you would have known about being a working Mom – or Mom who works – before you had children? Before I had Frankie, I wish I would have known that I didn’t need to be at the office until 8:00 PM.  In doing that, I was just continuing to take on the workload of what they were expecting of me.  Now, I have set a calendar reminder at 5:00 for each of my employees that pops-up and says “Can this wait until tomorrow?”.  In the body of the invite it says, “If not, give yourself the next 30 minutes to close up and finish what you’re doing.”  We’re not saving lives.  If it requires us to give up time with our loved ones it better be important.  If I could, I would go back and spend time with Ryan and my loved ones while also traveling a bit more.. All of my available time is now spent with Frankie,  That’s by choice and that’s what works for our family.

 

 

 

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Picture Imperfect: My Anxious Mom Brain

July 25, 2018 by admin

“There is stigma [attached to] talking about challenges,” says Liz Friedman, a founder of MotherWoman, which organizes a network of perinatal support groups across Massachusetts. “We don’t want to tell pregnant women about challenging births,” says Friedman, who now runs Group Peer Support for Parents. “We want to keep this facade that motherhood is everything we’ve ever hoped for and pregnancy is blissful. . . . We feel like we are raining on people’s parades and dramatizing our own struggles and scaring people, and we don’t want to do those things.”

“Yet,” she says, “we do need to talk about this.”

This quote is from Chelsea Conaboy’s article last week in the Boston Globe – Motherhood brings the most dramatic brain changes of a woman’s life.   It struck a chord and has really gotten me thinking about being honest and open about some of the challenges I and my family have faced over the past year.  We had a new healthy baby and had just bought our first house.  Life should be perfect, right?

We all have a scenario in mind of what it will be like when we find out we’re pregnant – what the nursery will look like, what we’ll name the baby, and how magical the first few minutes will be when that tiny little human is placed on our chest and automatically figures out how to feed itself.  This of course also means a relaxing maternity leave with mid-day naps, Instagram worthy pictures and plenty of time to re-decorate your new house while having no issues whatsoever breastfeeding.

But, I’m sure you can tell that that isn’t where this story is going – and you’re right.   When I started this blog I said I wanted to be honest and make sure I didn’t paint a picture that hides the messy parts of life.  So, now, I’m going to admit something that is not easy for me to say out loud to friends and family – let alone to a bunch of strangers, co-workers and professional acquaintances.

Over the past few months I’ve been struggling with severe anxiety and I’ve started going to therapy.

Similar to Conaboy, I’ve always been slightly anxious – I’m a planner – but I was so mentally broken down by a tough year that I was no longer appropriately coping with stress.   And I know perfectly well why that was the case.   Not only was my brain and body trying to rewire itself to “Mom mode”, but aside from the birth of our son, almost everything else that happened in 2017 was a personal kick in the gut.

My husband lost his job, I had family members and close friends dealing with some really crappy and heartbreaking life circumstances, and I felt like all of a sudden the world I knew was crashing down around me.  I don’t share this to earn sympathy – I just want to show that stuff just plain sucked.   Life got real, real fast, and it was HARD.

I wanted to be overjoyed about our bundle of joy, but some days, I just couldn’t get there.   The last seven weeks of my pregnancy and my maternity leave were so far from what I expected and I had a really hard time accepting that.  I was different and I was worried that my relationships and professional life would never be the same.

We look ready to leave the hospital. We were NOT ready for our first night at home…

I was doing pretty well handling everything until the fall, but this winter and into the spring I found myself to be irritable, disinterested and not wanting to talk to anyone.  I just wanted time for myself and didn’t want to be bothered.  I hated email, texting, Facebook etc.,  because I then felt obligated to respond to messages – which also meant I had even less time to spend on myself and the things I wanted to be doing.  It was one more person taking time from me and I resented it.

A question as simple as “What do you want for dinner?” would be irritating because I would have to make another decision.  (To highlight the full extent of the ridiculousness of my exasperation, I should also mention that my husband was almost always the one doing the cooking)…I felt like I was on a hamster wheel and any setback would send my mind down a mental spiral where I would automatically assume the worst outcome.

I was functioning, and on the surface I probably looked just fine, but I knew that it wasn’t sustainable and this was not what I wanted life to be like. So, I asked for help.

In full transparency, I haven’t been consistent about going to therapy over the past month or so (reminder to book another appointment tomorrow); but, I do intend to keep going and find myself mentally re-setting using the tools I learned there when I start to become overwhelmed.  

It was pretty easy to pinpoint the causes of my escalating anxiety in that first session, but I needed to relearn how to cope with it and to also focus on taking care of myself.  In fact, my first “homework” assignment was to run more.  My super sweet husband does a great job of keeping tabs of this and will make sure I put in the time to get outside if he can tell I’m getting “itchy”.

I am sharing this today because I want anyone reading this to know that it’s okay to ask for help and that you don’t have to live up to the idyllic scenes we’ve all been sold about pregnancy, childbirth, #MomLife, etc.   You just created a human for goodness sake! How can we be expected to go through the gauntlet that is pregnancy and childbirth and not come out the other side a different kind of person? You have changed – and that’s natural, that’s good, and that’s what makes you a better Mom, wife and employee.

This doesn’t mean that you can’t also still be good at your job or having a loving relationship with your significant other.   It does mean that you need to forgive yourself and accept that you’re going to have some tough moments.  Yes, that small human loves you no matter what, and you he/she; but, there will be days when you mourn for your former self.  When you wish you could just pick-up and go to the gym, the store, the office, etc. This is NORMAL.  If life does throw you a curve ball like me (or two, or three) while your brain and body are putting themselves back together, you need to be even more forgiving.  Your new life is not going to be perfect and it’s likely not going to be at all what you imagined; but, it can be pretty damn sweet.   Don’t give up on finding it.  Put down the Pinterest page, quit comparing yourself to others, and get help if you need it.

 

Struggling with Postpartum Anxiety or Depression and looking for help? Contact Postpartum Support International: 1.800.944.4773

 

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Sports Biz Mom: Jamie Wolfe, Gold’s Gym

July 17, 2018 by admin

I’ve known Jamie Wolfe for several years, as she was one of my husband’s classmates at Ohio University.  We reconnected at the National Sports Forum this February, right after she went returned to work from maternity leave.  I thought she’d be a great candidate for an interview because not only was she navigating her new role at home, but also one in a new company.  Jamie actually interviewed for her current position while she was pregnant – something that I know I would stress over to no end if I were in a similar position.  I hope any expecting Mom and job seeker out there reads this and feels confident in their ability to take on a new challenge, no matter the timing!

Jamie Wolfe lives in the Dallas area with her husband, Garrett, six month old son, Stephen, and Goldendoodle Belle. She is the Director of Global Licensing at Gold’s Gym. Prior to her current role, Jamie spent time at Learfield Licensing, Dr Pepper Snapple Group, and Genesco Sports Enterprises. She holds Masters degrees in Business and Sports Administration from Ohio University. Jamie also completed her undergraduate studies in Economics at Ohio University and was a member of the Swimming and Diving team. Connect with her on LinkedIn.

Do not be afraid to be honest about what you need and how you’ll get your work done.

What are your day-to-day responsibilities with Golds Gym?  My day-to-day responsibilities include management of the Gold’s Gym Licensing Portfolio and all associated programming. This could include working with our licensing agency to scout new partners, build offerings and communication strategy for current programs, approve product designs, and assist in the development of programs for partners to sell product at retail or online.

Can you describe a “typical” day in the life for you and your family?

    • 6:00 AM:  Wake up
    • 6:00 – 6:45 AM: My husband (Garrett) helps to get the dog out and Stephen ready for the day while I get ready
    • 6:45 AM:  We are out the door
    • 6:50-7:00 AM: Drop Stephen at daycare
    • 7:30 AM: Arrive at the office
    • 7:30 AM – 4:30 PM Work
    • 4:30 – 4:45 PM: Leave the office
    • 5:15 PM: Garrett picks up Stephen
    • 5:30 PM: Stephen eats dinner
    • 5:45 PM: Playtime
    • 6:30 PM: Bathtime
    • 7:00 PM: Nightime bottle and bedtime stories
    • 7:30 PM :Garrett and I eat dinner
    • 10:00 PM: Bedtime

How has being a Mom positively impacted your career? Being a mom has helped me with balance. I make it a point to really focus and be productive while I am at the office so I can do the same at home. Being a mom also pushed me to explore an opportunity outside of a traditional sports role. I am very passionate about health and wellness and this role provides me the opportunity to source great brand partners/products for a brand that helps people achieve their potential through fitness on a daily basis.  It was also a chance to rebuild the licensing program at Gold’s and develop a full-on strategy with a licensing partner.  That type of challenge motivates me to come to the office every day and to want to learn and grow professionally.

What’s something you wish you would have known about being a Mom who works before your son was born? How truly challenging it is. I know people say being a parent is one of the most challenging, but most rewarding things you will ever do in life. It is so true, but there are so many things to juggle and my baby is only 6 months old!

How has your employer helped in your transition to being a Mom who works? Have you been afforded any additional flexibility? When I got pregnant, I had to make a decision about how I wanted to balance work and family. I was in a role where I travelled almost weekly. When I interviewed for my current role, I was pregnant. So, from the very beginning Gold’s Gym was understanding of the fact that I would have to balance work and family. Specifically, I am able to get to work early and leave a bit earlier which is huge with Dallas traffic! I’m in the office every day at 7:30AM and leave by 4:30PM, so there’s a lot of flexibility there.

I told Gold’s I was pregnant when I was offered the job. They were supportive and told me we’d work everything out. Unfortunately, since I had just joined the company, I didn’t qualify for the short-term disability benefits while on maternity leave. However, I was able to work flex hours from home for almost a month once I did come back to work, and that helped tremendously with the transition.

Did your husband receive parental leave benefits when Stephen was born? Yes, his company provides fathers eight weeks paid leave. He took two weeks when Stephen was born and then an additional six weeks when I went back to the office. This helped immensely in the transition back to work for me because I wasn’t worried about who he was with and settling back in at the office.

What advice do you have it for women in sports who do not yet have a family, but may someday want to? Do not be afraid to be honest about what you need and how you’ll get your work done.  People inside and outside of the industry do understand family balance. Men often do too (especially if they have kids of their own). They may not practice it, but they understand it.

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Sports Biz Mom: Brooke Faw, Bespoke Sports & Entertainment

July 9, 2018 by admin

I had so much fun talking with Brooke for this interview! She cold emailed me after the blog launched and not only did I wish we could be friends right away, but it also quickly became obvious that she would be a great resource for other Moms in the industry.  While we did not know each other a month ago, I feel like we could have talked forever, and I’m excited to stay connected with her now and in the future.  Brooke took a unique path to the sports world, that I think shows the power of setting goals and believing in them.  She also travels frequently for business and I hope her experiences can help other Moms feel confident to do the same, should they choose to do so.

Brooke Faw lives in Charlotte, North Carolina with her husband Rocky and five-year old son Griffin.  She is an Account Director at Bespoke Sports and Entertainment.  Brooke became one of the company’s first employees in 2014 and oversees their expanding VIP Hospitality & Experiences group.   Prior to Bespoke, she was the Sports Partnerships Manager for Novant Health, working with the Charlotte Bobcats/Hornets, Charlotte Checkers and several NASCAR teams.  Brooke also spent two years with Earth Fare, a healthy grocery store chain, as their Community Relations Manager. She helped establish the Earth Fare Foundation, a non-profit organization with the goal of ending childhood obesity by teaching kids about eating healthy and living an active lifestyle.  Brooke began her career as a Kindergarten teacher and high school basketball coach. She holds a Bachelor’s degree in Elementary and Special Education and a Masters in Administration from Ball State University.  Connect with her on LinkedIn.

What are your day-to-day responsibilities with Bespoke Sports & Entertainment? I oversee Bespoke’s expanding VIP Hospitality & Experiences group that is building custom client programs throughout sports and entertainment.  In addition to VIP services, we provide our clients with strategy and brand consultations as well as activation and event execution services.  I am focused on our hospitality and experiences, hosting clients and planning business-to-business events at sporting and entertainment events so our clients stay closer to their own customers.   Last year I traveled approximately thirty weekends of the year, mostly for NASCAR races, but was also on the road for Formula E, college football, baseball, golf, hockey, as well as some entertainment events.

Can you describe a “typical” day in the life for you and your family? One thing I love about working at an agency is there is never a “typical” day. However, when I’m not traveling, I usually get up around 5:00 AM and go for a run or go work out. If I don’t work out in the morning I never find the time to get it in, so I force myself to do it in the morning.  Then I come home and get ready. My husband is usually up by then and he’ll make our son breakfast while I’m in the shower.

Our son Griffin is one of the most independent kids I’ve ever met, so he will get himself up, shower, get dressed (usually he matches!), brush his teeth and meet us downstairs for breakfast. The fact that he can do all of that on his own now has drastically reduced my morning stress!

We’re out the door by 8:30 AM. I drop him off at preschool and then head into the office. We live about 30 minutes from where I work and I usually get into the office around 9:00-9:30AM.

My work day is a balance of client calls, answering emails, creating presentation decks and planning events. These events can be anything from planning client hospitality around NASCAR races to custom fly-away trips to go to Spring Training camp to creating a B2B summit overseas around a Formula E race – and everything in between!

I leave the office around 6:00 or 7:00 PM and am usually home by 7:30 PM. Griffin’s great-grandmother picks him up from school and takes him to Tae-kwon-do practice. My husband picks Griffin up from Tae-kwon-do and brings him home. Dinner is usually done when I get home so we can sit down and eat as a family.  We make it a point to do this whenever my husband and I are both at home.

Griffin and I will play Legos or games until about 8:00 PM when I take him upstairs to read a book (his favorite is Goodnight Goodnight Construction Site) and tuck him in bed. Then my husband and I usually lay in bed and catch up on our Netflix shows while both finishing up whatever work didn’t get done during the day. It’s usually lights out around 11:00 PM and do it all over again the next day!

What professional accomplishment are you most proud of? When Bespoke first started, one of our very first big projects was a nationwide tour for FOX Sports 1, which celebrated the kick-off of the college football season and highlighted their first game – Michigan versus Utah.  This was during [Jim] Harbaugh’s first year as the Michigan head coach and everyone was hyped for his return.

We worked with FS1 to come up with this crazy idea – make a tour bus look like Coach Harbaugh; complete with khaki pants (real fabric!), a Michigan blue sweater, play card tucked into his belt line, etc.  We called the bus the “Harbus.” And took five Michigan students who resembled Harbaugh – the “Harbros” – and put them on the bus.  We also included Cleatus, the FOX Sports robot and a sports blogger who documented our trip.

We started in Michigan and traveled for fifteen days through the Midwest, down the East coast, through the South and then through the West to reach Utah. Every morning we did an appearance on a FOX regional network morning show and every afternoon we did an appearance with a former Wolverine or Ute celebrity.  In the evening we attended a baseball game that was broadcasted on FS1 and used an in game feature to promote the upcoming college football season. In total we did six baseball games in 14 days (Detroit, Cincinnati, New York (Yankees), Atlanta, Texas and St. Louis) while also stopping at the Big 10 headquarters, taking a lap around Charlotte Motor Speedway and eating at as many Cracker Barrels (Harbaugh’s favorite restaurant) as we could.  We created so much content and buzz around our trip that the Harbros started to get recognized and became mini celebrities by the end of the trip!

When we arrived in Utah we knew it was going to be tough. The Utah Athletics department wasn’t thrilled with how much FS1 had talked about Michigan when they had a really good football team as well. We weren’t given any access to the game and thought we were just going to have to watch it from our hotel room. However, we went into the stadium and just kept acting like we were supposed to be there. No tickets – just a smile and a polo shirt!

I led the boys down onto the field and no one stopped us! We hung out by the FS1 booth trying to keep a low profile when Sarah Harbaugh, Jim’s wife came over to our group. She had been following the tour and thought it was hilarious. She asked to take a picture with the Harbros and as we’re taking the picture, Coach Harbaugh walked out of the locker room! He came over to talk to the Harbros (who I thought were going to pass out because they were so excited.) Once the camera crew realized that Harbaugh was meeting the Harbros, they immediately came over to film the action. Our cover was blown and we were quickly escorted off the field, but not before our 15 minutes of fame. I remember my boss calling me asking how in the world I was on the field meeting Harbaugh (he saw us on TV) when I wasn’t even supposed to be allowed on campus.

Before that tour, I had never really traveled and definitely had never been away from home for two weeks. I also had never planned a tour route, hired staff and put fabric on a bus! I learned so much from that experience and now know that nothing is ever “impossible.”

What personal accomplishment are you most proud of?  My ability to step outside my comfort zone in order to chase my dreams. I’m from a map dot in Indiana where you marry your high school sweetheart, you live down the street from your parents and you raise a family of your own that turns around and repeats that cycle. While it’s an amazing life, I knew I wanted something different.

I took a leap of faith and came to North Carolina for what was supposed to be a “summer vacation.” I had no job, no family other than my uncle who I was visiting and barely knew anyone. Within a month I had a job, lots of new friends who I considered family and had met the love of my life who I quickly got engaged to just a short time later.

As a former teacher, you’ve forged a unique path into the sports industry.  Can you tell us about that experience?  [After moving to North Carolina] I felt my personal life was perfect but my professional life was still missing something. As much as I loved teaching and as comfortable as I was doing it (I come from a long line of educators) I knew I would kick myself if I didn’t pursue a career in sports. I quit teaching on the last day of school (a Thursday) got married on that Friday, went on a weeklong honeymoon and when I came back I started a new career in community relations at Earth Fare.

From there I worked up the nerve to ask my CEO if we could start the Earth Fare Foundation, as I saw it as a real need for our company – and in the next breath I told him I was pregnant! I started the foundation from scratch and it grew to be very successful, but I still wanted sports to be a part of my job.

I left Earth Fare when I landed a dream role of running sports partnerships for a large health care system in the Southeast. They also happened to have a PSA with Michael Jordan – the first time I met him I held it together and then called my dad from the car crying with excitement! I loved my job, my co-workers and everything about my career, but found myself bored with the “corporate” role of my job.

So I took my biggest step outside my comfort zone and came over to a startup agency. I had no idea what was in store as it was brand new but I knew I was working with some of the best in the business and there was no way we were going to fail. I’ve now traveled to almost all 50 states and internationally!  All this coming from the girl that had barely been outside her county line in Indiana.

How has being a Mom positively impacted your career? It has taught me so many things!

  1. How to survive on very little sleep – having an infant trained me to be up and power through at an event, even if I’d only had three hours of sleep.
  2. How to have the patience of a saint – I’ve found myself in meetings and where I may have previously been worked up, I now realize it’s not that big of deal.
  3. How to be emotional and connect with people – I always thought that emotion was a sign of weakness – and when I became a Mom I cried at the drop of the bucket. Now, when I’m emotional in meeting it shows that I care and it changed my perspective and turned what I thought was a negative into a positive.
  4. It has made me so extremely loyal – I will do anything for the people who help me instead of hinder me because I’m a Mom. I was told in my early 20’s that I could never have children, so I didn’t ever think this would happen for me.  I was very career driven and didn’t understand the concept of being so focused on family.  After my son was born I finally got it and I had great co-workers that would babysit for me or clients that would let me bring my baby to meetings.  I will do anything for those people now.  It’s tough being one of the only ones in the office with a child and working spouse and not having a dedicated person at home. Anyone who is willing to help me manage our crazy schedule and cares about my kid is gold in my eyes.
  5. It has made me want to help new moms so they know that they can do it too. It takes a village!

What’s something you wish you would have known about being a working Mom before you had children? That you don’t have to work yourself into the ground just to prove that you deserve to be here. I think we as females feel like we already have to prove ourselves so much more to deserve a seat at the table – we have to answer that email as soon as it comes in, we have to stay in the office later than everyone else, we have to work all night on the presentation – just to show we committed to the job.

As a new mom I felt like I had to double that – if I took an hour out of a meeting to pump, I needed to stay an hour later to make up for it. If I had to leave early to take the baby to his doctor appointment, I needed to come in early to make up for it. I constantly worried about “proving” that I wasn’t taking shortcuts just because I was a mom. I literally took a conference call while pacing the halls of the labor and delivery wing because I knew it was important and while I was in labor, the baby wasn’t coming right that second, so I had time.

Then someone finally shook some sense into me. “Work smarter, not harder” she said.  “There’s no eye for an eye and I don’t need to see you in here 10 hours a day.  I just need to know that whatever needs to be done is going to get done – I don’t care if that happens while you’re in the waiting room at the doctor’s office.  You don’t have to show me your face in order to prove to me that you’re doing your job.

It’s all about balance and it took me a long time to figure out how to balance all the wonderful things I have in my life. At the end of the day, I’m not curing cancer – that email can wait, my little boy can’t!

One of my goals for the blog is to be a resource both for working Moms but for sports industry leaders who work with or manage Sports Biz Moms.  What advice would you give to a supervisor about managing a Sports Biz Mom or soon-to-be Mom – particularly one who is not a parent themselves?  I would say, don’t be awkward, communicate, be open minded and flexible and ask them how they’re feeling.  Let them come in early and leave early.  Let them take a conference call from their office or work from home on Friday. If you put that hammer down and compare females to males, it’s the quickest way to lose good employees.  Supervisors also need to consider the bigger picture. They need to realize that other women who are not pregnant are watching how the company handles their co-workers pregnancy. If they want to have a family someday, they’re wondering how this is going to work and if supervisors want young females to continue to work for them, they have to set the right precedent.

What non-traditional benefits do you think would help to make the life of a Sports Biz Mom easier?  In-office or near office childcare – one of my biggest “mommy guilt issues” is that I feel like I don’t get to spend enough time with my little guy. However, if he could ride to work with me, I could spend my lunch time hanging out with him and then he can ride home with me; that would be awesome!

What type of childcare do you use?  There’s an African proverb that says “It takes a village to raise a child.” That couldn’t be truer – we have a combination of preschool, summer camps, babysitters, family and friends that we lean on – especially when we both have to travel. We try to spread it around so that no one feels overly used and are so incredibly grateful for all of their help. I wouldn’t be able to have the schedule I have without them.

What advice do you have it for women in sports who do not yet have a family, but may someday want to? Travel now! I didn’t start traveling until after I had Griffin and if I had it to do all over again I would have done this job in my 20’s so that I could be home more often now.

However, the best advice I can give is give yourself a break and stop worrying about it! I talk to so many women who say “I have no idea how you balance it all.” Some days I have no idea how I balance it all but I didn’t figure it out until I had to. You’ll never have enough money saved, you’ll never have enough vacation days banked up, it will never be the perfect time in your career to have a baby. So just go with the flow and if it happens, thank God for how blessed you are and don’t worry – you too will figure out how to balance it all.

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Maternity Leave Planning: Put Your Best Belly Forward

June 28, 2018 by admin

So, you’ve told your boss your pregnant.  Which probably means your family, friends and co-workers are now clued in to your big news as well, or will be very soon.  Inevitably, you’ll soon be setting up baby registries and trying to avoid the silly diapering or toilet paper-based games at your shower.  While you’re busy planning your nursery and picking out baby names, it’s also important that you’re preparing appropriately for your maternity leave at the office – and this can be a daunting task.

We all like to think that we are irreplaceable and that no one else can do the job that we do.   While it may be true that no one else can do the job just like you do, if you do it right, your co-workers SHOULD be able to bridge the gap for you during our leave with little disruption to their own roles.  As career driven women, who have spent years climbing the ranks, this may be hard idea to accept – I know it was a scary prospect for me.   You’ve spent how long building up your capital and respect at work and now you’re just going to hand it over for three-ish months to somebody else? What if they find out I’m a fraud or decide I’m not good enough? What if we lose a major client because I’m not there to steer the ship?  I’m due on Opening Day – my entire team is going to hate me – how will I make this work?

Well ladies, I’m going to tell you a little secret – with proper preparation, NOTHING WILL BE IRREVERSIBLY DAMAGED WHILE YOU ARE HOME WITH YOUR BABY.  Yes, you are awesome and work your butt of every day, and they’ll be glad to have you back, but they WILL BE FINE WITHOUT YOU! In fact, planning for your maternity leave is an amazing opportunity to show your company just how much value you really bring to the table.   You can demonstrate your delegation skills, plan for the long-term, and put your rock star status on display.   Think about it – not only will you be forced to prioritize your time leading up to your leave, you’ll also have to think about projects three to six (or more) months past your due date and try to determine how to best prepare your team for success with that vision in mind.

Even though the few months leading up to the birth of my son were hectic (he was also born at the tail-end of our busiest time of year), I honestly enjoyed the opportunity to take a step back and take a look at the big picture.   So, I thought it would be helpful to share some of the key things I did to make sure I left my book of business in the best position possible. I wanted to spend my leave focused on my fresh, sweet, screaming small human – and not on my cell phone (this is also probably going to show just how much I like to plan, make lists, etc. – so I hope this isn’t overkill for any of you more “go-with-the-flow” gals).

This isn’t an all-inclusive checklist, more questions to ask or things to think about in the months after you announce your pregnancy.  Every company’s maternity leave policy is different and it’d be impossible to come up with a checklist that can be applied so broadly.  However, thinking about some of these things early in your pregnancy can help you build out your own checklist and make sure everyone on your team knows the plan during your time out of the office.

Do not take these bullet points as gospel.  I am by no means a FMLA expert (at least not yet – I hope it’s something that’s a by-product of this blog), so please be sure to confirm all of your company’s requirements with your Human Resources office.   These suggestions are based on my personal experience and conversations with other Sports Biz Moms.

  • Tell your boss: Before you do anything else, go back, do not pass go, and read this post if you need help.
  • Talk to HR: Confirm your maternity leave benefits and filing requirements with your human resources department. If your leave is not entirely paid (which unfortunately in the United States, it’s probably not), you may be able to take vacation days concurrently with your leave.  This is important to think about, especially if you’re able to rollover vacation days from year-to-year. I found out I was pregnant in July and my son was due in March, so I purposefully banked a bunch of vacation days in the year prior so I could have more weeks paid during my leave.  I received six weeks paid through short-term-disability and then used my saved vacation time for another two weeks’ pay.
  • Short-Term Disability: Some of you may be wondering what the heck I was referencing in the previous bullet point. Many companies pay their employees during maternity leave through their short-term disability insurance policy.  The exact benefits vary, but in most cases the length of time paid depends on whether you delivered vaginally or via cesarean section.  I thought this article did a nice job at attempting to explain this exciting topic…
  • Technology: Talk to IT about their suggestions for prepping your technology for an extended absence. Does your computer need to be logged-in to your internal network/VPN every so often to make sure you’re not locked out of the system when you return?  I learned this the hard way and spent two and a half miserable days being able to only access email through a public desktop that had not been updated in several years.  The worst part of my first few days back at work was not being able to do actual work – it just made it that much easier to remember the small human I left with complete strangers at daycare.
  • Childcare: Talk to your boss about your childcare plan and how they would prefer you handle any emergencies. Your partner’s work flexibility will weigh heavily on your options here, but it’s important to consider should you need to pick-up you baby from day care during work or event hours.  Once you get to cold and flu seasons there will come a day when your sweet ball of germs isn’t allowed to be around other babies, and it’s going to be during the playoffs, big pitch meeting, opening day, etc.
  • Work Flexibility: On a related noted to the point above, be sure to discuss options for flexible work arrangements with your employer. Your baby’s doctor appointment schedule will put your own social calendar to shame and it sometimes may be more efficient for you to work from home in the morning/afternoon if your doctor’s office is not convenient to your commute.  You may also be able to consider creative ways to fit in time with your child during game nights or weekends when you don’t have direct work responsibilities.  Can you have them with you at the ballpark/arena/stadium if your partner or another family member is able to take over if an emergency pops-up?  On non-event or game days, can you come in early and leave early? Check out my interview with Tiffanne Ryan at the St. Louis Cardinals, as we touched on this topic. Everybody loves a baby in those cute noise-cancelling headphones…
  • Mom Network: Are there other Mom’s in your office? Talk to them. Get to know them well. They should be the best resource for you in navigating your company’s approach to working mothers. It’s so important to have an empathetic resource in the office and this can make such a huge difference on the day when you haven’t slept, your babysitter bailed, and you’re on week 3 of the world’s worst cold.  You’ll love your baby, I promise…
  • Breastfeeding/Pumping: If you plan to breastfeed, be sure to discuss pumping accommodations and schedules with human resources and your boss. It’s important that you are able to schedule this time throughout your day (in the beginning that life sucker – the pump, not your baby – will probably be attached to you every 3 hours) and that you have clean, private place to do so.  This DOES NOT mean the public restroom.  This means a room with a lock and shielded from the view of the rest of your office.  Ideally, it would also include a sink and a refrigerator.  This is actually a law, thanks to the Affordable Care Act, so please share this link if you need to lobby for real estate.  If you need help with this conversation, I am more than happy to chat at any time and I truly mean this.  Please email me.  I pumped at work for 13+ months and have grown far too comfortable talking about it with anyone who will listen.
  • Your Stand-ins:Think about who will cover for you while you’re out. Your boss may have a preference, but I would also recommend coming to this meeting with your own suggestions, particularly if you have a big project that you want in trusted hands. When I was leave, it was during a somewhat busy time of year, so I split my territory among three of my co-workers and that helped lighten their workload and make sure my partners received the best service possible in my absence.
  • Your To-Do List: Build a calendar working backwards from you due to date (mine started about 10 weeks out) that highlights important projects, deadlines, etc. and cross things off the list as they’re completed.   This will be help you prioritize your work before you are out of the office, and can also serve as a guide for your co-workers should baby arrive earlier than expected.
  • Looking Forward: After you create your plan of work to get done BEFORE you’re on leave, extend that calendar through your time off and your first four weeks back at work. This should highlight projects and deadlines your team needs to keep the ship afloat while you’re out and will help you focus once you get back to the office.
  • Status Updates: Schedule regular meetings with your co-worker(s) to discuss status updates and any outstanding issues once you near your due date. About six weeks prior to my due date, I began weekly status updates with my colleagues where I ran them through any major project updates and filled them in on the various idiosyncrasies of my partners.  Depending on the relationship with your supervisor, they may also want to be included in these meetings.
  • Back-up: Save all of your important files on a shared office drive. You don’t want to have to crack open your laptop during a precious nap time to send someone a spreadsheet.  I’d also suggest diving into these folders with your colleagues to explain your own system of organization in your weekly status meetings.
  • Go-Time: What is the communication plan for when you go into labor? Will you tell your boss and your co-workers when you go to the hospital or after the baby is born? If your experience is anything similar to mine, you’ll have 27+ hours to keep the team updated, but the constant barrage of nurses, doctors and husbands poking around (literally) will make you want to avoid all conversation – figure this out ahead of time.  I texted both my boss and my co-workers to let them know it was go-time and they all received an update after my son finally made his appearance.

There you go folks.  My over-planning tendencies for all the world to see.  If I had to sum up the maternity leave planning process simply, it would be OVERCOMMUNICATE.  You may think your co-worker knows that Mrs. James in Suite 42 likes her popcorn stale and beer served at room temperature, but it’s best not to make assumptions – both in planning for maternity leave and in considering the capacity of your infant’s diaper.

Please do reach out to me with any other suggestions or tips.   I’ve only birthed one human at one company, so I’m sure there’s some things I’ve missed that we can add to the list!

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